perf(server): optimize getByIds query (#7918)

* clean up usage

* i'm not updating all these tests

* update tests

* add indices

* add indices to entities

remove index from person entity

add to face entity

fix

* simplify query

* update sql

* missing await

* remove synchronize false

server/test/repositories/asset.repository.mock.ts

@@ -8,6 +8,7 @@ export const newAssetRepositoryMock = (): jest.Mocked<IAssetRepository> => {
     getByDate: jest.fn(),
     getByDayOfYear: jest.fn(),
     getByIds: jest.fn().mockResolvedValue([]),
+    getByIdsWithAllRelations: jest.fn().mockResolvedValue([]),
     getByAlbumId: jest.fn(),
     getByUserId: jest.fn(),
     getById: jest.fn(),